Tuesday, October 10, 2023

From ‘Henna for the Broken-Hearted. When the search for meaning takes you all the way to India’ by Sharell Cook

  

Indians can be extremely adjustable or extremely stubborn, depending on the perception of power. Rules are created or bent at will to suit situations. Definitions of right and wrong are never absolute, and instead depend on the context and the desired outcome.

 

In India, it was hard to get the most straightforward tasks done, amid systems that were confusing to learn.

 

………beauty of India is that there’s always a positive to the negative, if you take the time to notice it.

 

It was another common Indian trait to always find an excuse and never admit liability.

 

Indian culture lacked not only privacy, but also equality.

 

I soon discovered that southern Indians were particularly enthusiastic head-wobblers.

 

Poverty-stricken, overburdened and uncivilised, most of Uttar Pradesh isn’t welcoming to visitors. The state is home to the Taj Mahal and Varanasi, two of the most popular tourist destinations in India. Yet, most of it consists of rural farming land that is unable to support the largest population, of almost 200 million inhabitants, in India. Crime, lack of education, unemployment and ‘eve teasing’ (sexual harassment of women) plagues the state.

 

……..after taking another bus from the border, we arrived in Kathmandu………. The atmosphere was noticeably different in Nepal. Despite being a very poor country, a certain dignity was apparent. People greeted me with a ‘Namaste’. Staring was minimal. And there were no rude comments ………

 

Why was it so impossible for anything to go to plan in India?

From ‘….and then you're dead ! 47 reasons to start living your life’ by Jim Rai

 

 

Take good care of your knees

 

Our greatest danger in life, is not that our aim is too high, and we miss it but that it is too low and we reach it.

-        Michelangelo

 

Look after your gums

 

Dear Optimist, Pessimist and Realist, While you were busy arguing about the glass of water, I drank it!

Sincerely, The Opportunist.

 

If you don’t ask, then the answer is always “no!”

 

Andre Gide ………….”Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to lose sight of the shore.”

 

Two important things in life; never compromise on the quality of a good mattress and good shoes, because if you’re not in one, you’re always in the other.

 

Listen to sit properly, keep your posture upright – look after your back.

 

Do not continually use and breathe in cleaning products and detergents

 

Capture your grandparents’ history on tape as it will be lost once they have gone.

 

Stretch for five minutes every morning.

 

Taking lemon and probiotics daily is great for the digestive system.

 

Cut out the white bread and white sugar.

 

Use almond or mustard oil and give yourself a body massage twice a month.

 

Einstein once defined insanity as “Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”

 

If you are in a hard water area, install a water softener – the difference is amazing.

 

“The true meaning of life is to plant trees under whose shade you don’t expect to sit.” – A Greek proverb.