Tuesday, October 10, 2023

From ‘Henna for the Broken-Hearted. When the search for meaning takes you all the way to India’ by Sharell Cook

  

Indians can be extremely adjustable or extremely stubborn, depending on the perception of power. Rules are created or bent at will to suit situations. Definitions of right and wrong are never absolute, and instead depend on the context and the desired outcome.

 

In India, it was hard to get the most straightforward tasks done, amid systems that were confusing to learn.

 

………beauty of India is that there’s always a positive to the negative, if you take the time to notice it.

 

It was another common Indian trait to always find an excuse and never admit liability.

 

Indian culture lacked not only privacy, but also equality.

 

I soon discovered that southern Indians were particularly enthusiastic head-wobblers.

 

Poverty-stricken, overburdened and uncivilised, most of Uttar Pradesh isn’t welcoming to visitors. The state is home to the Taj Mahal and Varanasi, two of the most popular tourist destinations in India. Yet, most of it consists of rural farming land that is unable to support the largest population, of almost 200 million inhabitants, in India. Crime, lack of education, unemployment and ‘eve teasing’ (sexual harassment of women) plagues the state.

 

……..after taking another bus from the border, we arrived in Kathmandu………. The atmosphere was noticeably different in Nepal. Despite being a very poor country, a certain dignity was apparent. People greeted me with a ‘Namaste’. Staring was minimal. And there were no rude comments ………

 

Why was it so impossible for anything to go to plan in India?

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